Bach-flowers
Man tries to hide his tormenting thoughts and inner restlessness behind a mask of cheerfulness and carefreeness.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-While he likes peace and harmony around him, tension, arguments and quarrels cause him mental anguish.
-Would like to please everyone.
-does a lot for the sake of peace.
-Compromising, not afraid of small lies, he will make almost any sacrifice to keep his peace of mind and avoid confrontations.
-Hiding her problems and inner turmoil behind a mask of joking and cheerfulness - Motto: "No problem, just keep smiling, keep it light."
-Disguises his problems, doesn't talk about them on his own, and won't admit them even if others ask.
-To escape the tormenting, worrisome thoughts, he is always on the move. He seeks entertainment, diversion, going to the cinema, socialising, taking short trips, as long as there's always something going on.
- Because he refuses to ignore unpleasant situations, he sees the world through rose-tinted glasses.
-Friendly, peacemaker, the centre of society.
-Smoking, alcohol, pills or even drugs are needed to get through difficult situations in a good mood, to relieve tormenting thoughts.
-Secret emotional pain in children who otherwise quickly forget their grief.
We need the flower when one or two reactions fit us exactly at the moment.
An inexplicable, mysterious anxiety, a premonition, a secret dread of some impending calamity.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-A constant sense of fear and danger.
-Sudden fear, whether alone or among people.
-You have an unpleasant feeling of being bewitched.
-Filled with fear of occult phenomena and superstitions.
-Fear of some kind of invisible power or force.
-Fear of fear, but he didn't dare tell anyone about it.
-He is tormented by nightmares, panic and fear, when he wakes up, he doesn't dare to go back to sleep.
-If there is an influenza epidemic in the newspaper, the first symptoms will soon appear.
We need the flower when one or two reactions fit us exactly at the moment.
Criticizing coercion, prejudice, intolerance. Judging without trying to enter into the feeling world of others. Or refrains from any criticism, even appropriate criticism.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-It's the faults of others that immediately catch his eye -He always sees and mentions first what's wrong.
-He is too critical of himself.
-Angered by the stupidity of others.
-Small reaction, no sophistication.
- It lashes out at others, seeing only their faults and condemning them.
-An excessive tendency to criticise sets him apart from his peers.
Or:
-Does not appear intolerant, avoids appropriate constructive criticism and is overly understanding.
-Whatever happens, he thinks it right.
We need the flower when one or two reactions fit us exactly at the moment.
Weak-willed, over-reactive to the wishes of others, unable to say no.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Too lenient.
-He finds it difficult to get his way.
-Compliant, smooth, obedient.
-Passive, adaptable, weak-willed.
-Not standing up for your interests, not saying what you want.
-He immediately understands what others expect of him and can't stop himself from not doing enough.
-Let him be fooled.
-Can't stand up for yourself, let others tell you what to do.
-Easily persuaded to do anything, even if he didn't want to initially.
-You often take on too much because it would be more tiring to refuse than to do it.
-Dances as they whistle, under the influence of a stronger personality: a parent, partner, boss.
-Children are very responsive to praise and scolding.
We need the flower when one or two reactions fit us exactly at the moment.
He does not trust his intuition.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Do not trust your own judgement.
-He keeps asking others for advice, hoping that they will decide for him.
-Gives too much weight to the opinions of others.
-Accumulating knowledge without using it.
-He wants to make sure he doesn't do anything wrong.
-We look to respected people for confirmation.
-You are acting against your convictions because someone else advised you to.
-You have barely made your decision before you doubt its correctness.
-Others say he has no common sense -He gives the impression of being a stubborn, simple-minded, sometimes stupid man.
-You tend to adopt the opinions of others.
-Children often cross out the correct solution in a test and write the wrong one instead.
We need the flower when one or two reactions fit us exactly at the moment.
Fear of inner letting go, of madness, of mental short-circuits, of unbridled temper tantrums.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Emotional saturation or blockage.
-He can hardly control himself.
-He wants to talk about his feelings.
-He is internally upset, trying to control himself.
-You feel like you're sitting on a powder keg.
-He is afraid of having a nervous breakdown.
-Fear of going mad, going crazy and ending up in a mental hospital.
-He is toying with the idea of ending it all so that redemption can finally come.
-He suffers from extreme inner tension, trembling, compulsively pacing back and forth, watching himself.
-Sudden tantrums: children throwing themselves on the floor, adults banging their heads against the wall, smashing a broken household appliance or throwing objects.
-Parents are afraid of losing control, afraid of abusing their children.
-Children are afraid to wet their pants.
We need the flower when one or two reactions fit us exactly.
You always make the same mistakes because you don't really process your experiences, so you don't learn from them.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Always faces the same difficulties, has the same disagreements with the same people, causes the same accidents.
- Because he is always two steps ahead in his thinking, he is often inattentive or uninterested in the situation at hand.
-He'd rather jump straight into something else than digest his latest experience in peace.
-He seems to be a very slow learner.
-Does not filter enough of his experiences for himself, does not process them thoroughly enough.
-It never occurs to you that you could learn from the experiences of others.
-He's not really listening to the conversation, because he's already preparing his next question.
-If you have solved a problem in your mind, you either don't care about the implementation or it is only done superficially.
-If something doesn't work, such as the fax, you keep pressing buttons instead of reading the instructions.
-He seems thoughtless, even naive.
-Psychologically difficult, apparently barely developing.
- Learning disabilities, delayed development.
We need the flower when one or two reactions fit us exactly at the moment.
Expropriating emotional needs. Interferes in everything, manipulates others, feels not enough recognition and love.
-Demanding behaviour, tries to establish a special emotional connection with others immediately.
-Overly caring, gently supervising, forcing the other person into an independent dependency.
-It makes you indispensable.
-It forces its good deeds on others.
-You rarely do anything without thinking about the benefits.
-You can always count on him, but he's always making comments, suggestions, he knows everything better.
-Looks after the needs, wishes and progress of his family and friends like a mother hen.
-Conditional love: love you if...
-He is grateful if he represents the interests of others, even though no one has asked him to.
-Manipulates, tactics to get his way or keep his influence.
-Use psychological blackmail.
-All is forgiven and difficult to forgive.
-Titkon fears losing friends, contacts or possessions.
-Easily offended, feels ignored.
-You'll feel sorry for yourself if you don't get what you expected.
-He keeps thinking about how much others owe him.
-He is moved to tears by the ingratitude of others.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
A waking dreamer. His thoughts are always elsewhere. He shows little interest in what is going on around him.
Reactions in the blocked state:
- He gets lost in his thoughts, gets distracted.
-Awake, distracted, dreaming with eyes open.
-Always looking for something well stashed.
-It is easy to lose your sense of direction.
-Your room is a mess, it's hard to keep order.
-He is not particularly interested in the present, he lives mostly in his imagination.
-In reality, you often feel unwell.
-In difficult situations, they resort to unrealistic speculation.
-Dreamy, sleepy, slightly confused.
- Because he does not live fully in the real world, he has few aggressive manifestations or anxieties.
-You look strikingly pale and sleepy.
-He has a long memory, ignoring details because he doesn't bother to pay close attention.
-If you are ill, you do not seek a quick cure because you have a weak instinct for self-preservation.
- He often lies.
-If he can't tell the difference between reality and fiction, he lives a life of lies, he's a great storyteller.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
You feel contaminated, unclean, infected, internally or externally. Over-regulated.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-exaggerated purity on the spiritual-mental or physical plane.
-Developed sense of spiritual hygiene.
-He is protecting himself because he has done something that is not in line with his internal values.
-You feel you must cleanse yourself of impure thoughts.
-You feel guilty, unclean.
-Overly focused on details, annoyed by trifles.
-I find it very difficult to be forgiving.
-Manage clutter in the outside world and in your private life.
-Everything should look as if it has been pulled out of a box, and the environment should feel a little sterile.
-It is self-induced because of skin rashes, eye sockets, leg sweating, acne.
-External allergy to dirt, insects, bacteria, etc.
-Heavy hygiene needs, fear of eating spoiled food, disgusted by dirty toilets, fear of toxic medicines, environmental pollution, etc.
-He also wants to get rid of minor illnesses immediately, because he overestimates them and is depressed if he does not succeed immediately.
-Parents teach their children to be too clean.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
A fleeting feeling that his tasks and responsibilities are beyond him.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Hireless feels that his tasks are beyond him.
-He feels he can no longer bear the huge responsibility.
-He simply can't take it any longer, a little extra work is the last straw.
-He is too exhausted to cope with all that he has to deal with.
-Desperate periods of fatigue in strong personalities who temporarily lose confidence.
-Exhaustion makes you feel temporarily inadequate.
-Now he doesn't know where to start, he scrambles instead of assigning someone to the job.
-You have doubts about whether you are fit and suitable for a particular job.
-He doesn't dare to stay at home when he is ill, because he doesn't want to let his colleagues down.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Sceptical, doubtful, pessimistic, easily discouraged.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Little blows hit him in the chest, he sees everything darkly.
-It's easy to become discouraged by difficulties you haven't seen before, and frustrated at the thought of giving up.
-He is depressed, depressed about a certain thing.
-He usually reacts immediately with scepticism to avoid disappointment later.
-You sometimes seem to take pleasure in your pessimism.
-Hit and lack of confidence is uncertain.
-In every situation, he is the first to express his doubts; he seems to be a walking doubter.
-Even in minor crises, you need a lot of encouragement and encouragement.
-Even if something goes well, imagine how badly it could have gone.
-Doesn't realise that often it's because of a lack of faith that things don't work out.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Hopelessness, resignation, a feeling of "it doesn't make sense anyway".
Reactions in the blocked state:
- No longer sees the potential for positive change.
-He's mentally tired, he doesn't have the energy to run again.
-He sees no way out, he has given up mentally.
-Does not dare to hope that his situation will change.
-He realised he had a chronic illness.
-Deep down, he had already given up caring about his fate.
-Already had a chronic illness as a child or grew up with a chronic illness (e.g. heart, alcohol, or mental illness)
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Self-centred, self-absorbed, always needing to talk, "child in need".
Reactions in the blocked state:
-His thoughts almost always revolve around his own problems, he feels very important.
-He feels an inner compulsion to talk to everyone about himself.
-You need your fellow human beings, but as a "mirror".
-He cannot be alone because he feels somehow lost.
-He is prone to emotional exaggerations, turning a flea into an elephant.
-I find it hard to listen to the other person.
-Full of his own thoughts and emotions, not interested in others.
-Outwardly, you often present yourself as stronger than you are, so you don't inspire sympathy in others.
-In company, he involuntarily takes the floor and turns the conversation to himself.
-While talking, he steps closer to the other, grabs her dress, does not let go.
-He was emotionally neglected as a child and is still emotionally malnourished to this day.
-Unaccepted as an infant, he unconsciously seeks recognition and self-justification from his environment.
-Children are acting like little children again.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Resentment, anger, hatred, envy, jealousy.
Reactions in the blocked state:
- They can quickly become angry, unfriendly or aggressive.
-Angry, annoyed, irritable, but not always knowing why.
- Envious, vindictive, gloating.
-jealous and suspicious.
-His heart hardened, his feelings poisoned.
-He is reacting violently, angrily.
- Others are cold or afraid of their mood swings.
-Fear of being cheated, deceived.
- She feels her feelings are misunderstood.
- Behind many reports, he suspects something bad.
-Blaming others.s
-You often feel everyone is against you, resentful.
-You are always belittling, belittling others.
-The obvious happiness of others pierces his heart.
-Anger, venom, temper, sudden outbursts of temper in children, from aggression to bad temper.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
He longs for the past, ponders the past with regret, does not live in the present.
Reactions in the blocked state:
- A certain past event (pleasant or unpleasant) is as vivid as if it happened yesterday.
- He constantly refers to the past, both to himself and in conversation.
- It glorifies the past and wants everything to be as it was before.
- He looks back on the good times with sadness.
-Can't come to terms with the loss of a loved one, pet, property, object.
- He doesn't want to accept anything.
- He often reflects on his fond memories.
- He is homesick.
- You regret a missed, never-to-return opportunity or a missed chance.
- His unfulfilled desire to start all over again.
- He cannot part with objects, they all have memories attached to them, for example a shoe, a useless souvenir.
- Sometimes he barely remembers anything from his childhood.
- A past event appears so vividly in his mind's eye that it could be painted.
- You have to think about a certain person over and over again.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Mental fatigue, temporary or prolonged mental weakness.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-He feels he does not have the strength to cope with everyday life.
-He has a heavy head, he's tired and groggy.
- It's like a hangover.
- "Monday morning" mood.
-Heads ache from watching too much TV, reading too much, studying too much.
-He finds the task ahead very demanding.
-He has no motivation and feels mentally lazy.
-He is mentally tired of doing what he has had to do for decades.
-He gets out of bed with some difficulty, more tired than when he went to bed last night.
-Frequent connective tissue weakness, which is a manifestation of mental inflexibility.
- No drive, always feeling overworked.
-After a long illness, he thinks he's still not strong enough to start work, but that's not the case.
-He thinks he can't get to work without stimulants (coffee tea).
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Impatient, irritable, exaggerated reactions.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Time is a constraint.
-hurrying for no other reason.
-He wants everything to happen quickly and smoothly.
-Always wants to get things done right away, has a hard time waiting for things to take shape.
-Speaks, eats and works faster than others.
-Slow people irritate, frustrate.
-Rude and inconsiderate to those slower than you.
-It takes the word away from others in its fearlessness.
- He quickly becomes angry, acting rude, but his anger quickly evaporates.
-We don't close completely finished works because we don't want to spend more time on them.
-It strongly demands independence.
-He prefers to work alone, at his own pace.
-You make rash decisions.
-He does not finish his sentences.
-In his fearlessness, he takes things out of other people's hands.
-If the patient wants the symptoms to go away immediately
-The children can't sit still, their hands and feet are moving.
-With its heightened activity, its reserves of strength are quickly depleted, short fatigue and sudden onset of nerve-induced tension pain can occur.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Fear of failure due to self-doubt, inferiority complex.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-feels at a disadvantage compared to others.
-What he admires in others, he has not the courage to do.
-Compares himself to others, always to his disadvantage.
- He is firmly convinced that he cannot cope with something, so he does not try.
-Otherwise it takes a back seat.
-When the opportunity presents itself, it is passive and hesitant.
-He cites illness to avoid having to do something.
-False modesty resulting from lack of confidence.
-Feels inferior, inferior because of his/her origin, language, colour, disability.
-Children feel they are failing at school.
-The second-born child has self-esteem problems.
-Not working in a job that matches your skills.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Shyness, timidity, specific fears that can be named.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Fearless, hesitant, cautious.
-There is always something to be anxious about.
-You imagine everything to be harder and more dangerous than it is.
-He is upset about a situation, but does not talk about his concerns.
-Specific fears and phobias: e.g. dark stairwell corridor, certain diseases, pain, loss of money, death, accident, fear of animals, etc.
-Hypersensitivity to cold, noise, glare, loud speech, strong smells.
-It's tense on the inside, it immediately turns red, your palms get clammy.
-Speech sometimes slurs, stutters or laughs in confusion.
- He is shying away from the new, he needs time to prepare.
-Delays things unconsciously out of fear.
-He gets very shy if he encounters resistance or if something doesn't go right.
-Fears being alone, yet is timid and nervous in company.
-It is easy to get sick when you are facing worrying things.
-Babies cry for no apparent reason when they wake up in the morning.
-Children cling shyly to their mothers or are afraid of strangers.
-Children don't want to hear a story with violence in it.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Periods of deep melancholy alternate suddenly, for no apparent reason.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-You don't want to do anything.
-He starts crying easily.
-Does not want to move.
-He's out of a good mood.
-No longer accepting impressions.
-Time feels like it's passing more slowly.
-Can't be happy about anything anymore.
-From one moment to the next, he is depressed and depressed.
-He feels a deep melancholy, a world of pain.
-A heavy, oppressive black cloud descends on her, her soul mourns.
-Feels excluded from normal life.
-Does not see a logical connection between his daily life and his current situation.
-He turned completely inward, overcome with sadness.
- He cannot hide his bad mood from others.
-There is no reasoning your way out of this mood.
- He is subjected to this feeling until it suddenly disappears of its own accord, and then he feels as if he has been released from captivity.
-Fears this situation because he cannot overcome it.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
A tired and exhausted warrior who is steadfast in the face of adversity and never gives up.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Dutiful and reliable in all circumstances, even when it comes to this.
- He shows almost superhuman perseverance and patience, but he does not know his own needs.
- He is exhausted and overworked, but never complains.
- He tends to over-work himself, which makes him inwardly depressed and discouraged.
- He fights hard against difficulties, even when the situation seems hopeless.
- He often works out of a sense of duty.
- He feels that he owes it to himself.
- He shares in the plans of others.
- He ignores the need to rest.
- He tries not to show his fatigue and weakness.
- They admire him for not letting himself be beaten.
- He is exhausted and overworked, but never complains.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
You feel completely exhausted, extreme physical and mental fatigue.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Exhaustion after prolonged overwork or long illness.
-Feeling exhausted to the point of exhaustion, completely worn out.
-Wants only one thing, rest.
-Unable to start anything, no desire to do anything.
-Even tired of making a phone call or reading a letter.
-Deep inner fatigue after internal struggles and changes that have consumed a lot of mental energy.
-Rested physically after some exertion, but not mentally.
-A period of high energy investment is always followed by extreme exhaustion.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
He has a heightened or unfounded sense of guilt, reproaches himself, is fearless.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-All over the place he makes excuses.
-Can't forgive himself, reproaches himself even after years.
- It is easy for him to feel remorse, and it takes him a long time to get rid of it.
- He also feels responsible for the mistakes of others.
-If he is better, he feels guilty somehow.
-Even when he is successful, he reproaches himself for doing one or two things better, so he cannot enjoy his success.
-Beats himself up because he doesn't make as much money as others.
-Feels guilty if he has to settle a dispute.
-Apologises when he is ill, depressed or exhausted.
-He thinks he is inferior, feels inferior.
-Feels unworthy of love, questions his right to life, "sorry to be in the world".
-Highly childish, timid basic attitude, unconsciously waiting to be rebuked.
-Obsession with self-sacrifice, negative narcissism, with a masochistic tinge.
-Founded guilt so heightened that he cannot cope.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Excessive fear and concern for others, too strong inner attachment.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Too strong inner attachment to others.
-Overly worried about the safety of others (children, partner), but not themselves.
-Breaks his head over others, gets too emotionally involved in other people's lives.
-Living someone else's life as if it were your own.
-You know other people's feelings better than your own.
- If he is late, he thinks something is wrong.
-If someone talks to you on the phone about their illness, for example, you will immediately notice the symptoms.
-Fears that the other person's harmless complaints are masking a serious illness.
-He could never really get away from one person.
-He constantly warns his children or grandchildren to be careful.
-You are a burden on others with your perpetual preoccupation.
-Parents wrap the baby in the pram so tightly that it can't move.
Panic and terror, extremely intense fear states.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-It's easy to panic quickly.
- It spins up quickly.
-In an extreme state, fear comes on suddenly and gradually intensifies.
-Fear, aversion, terrible panic attacks, nervous system not functioning normally.
-Fear has almost driven him out of his mind, he can't hear or see, he can't speak, his heart has almost stopped beating.
-High fear in case of accidents, natural disasters, life-threatening injuries.
-You can still feel the fear in your bones when you've just got away with something.
-Children get a fast heartbeat and clammy palms.
-Pain in the plexus solaris, like a stone in the stomach.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Rigid and rigid views, repressed needs, too hard on yourself.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Wants to be absolutely perfect.
-His life is subjected to strict loss, sometimes even to exaggerated ideal images.
-He denies himself many things, believing that they are incompatible with his life principle, and in the process loses his zest for life.
-Doing everything to get and stay in top shape, self-discipline is key.
-He sets very high standards, forcing himself almost to the point of self-abandonment to live up to them.
-You don't realise what you force yourself to do every day.
-He keeps saying, I can't afford this.
-It misinterprets spirituality, latches on to a tangible detail (e.g. meditation technique, diet) and considers it scripture.
-It is almost compulsive to reach a higher spiritual level, but stubbornly insists on repressing certain things.
- He secretly smiles at playful, childish people.
-He believes that earthly desires hinder spiritual development.
-When meditating, you fall into your own trap because you want too much.
-Stifles basic physical and mental needs such as exercise, sexuality, eating, drinking.
-You reproach yourself if you are not able to maintain strict discipline.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Indecisive, moody, unbalanced, his opinions and moods change from minute to minute.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Indecisive, internally restless.
-You are always thinking about two options, because you want to win something from both sides.
-Extreme mood swings: crying and laughing, boundless jubilation and deadly sadness.
-Capturing many impulses, jumping back and forth in thought.
He often changes his decisions, is considered unreliable and dangerous.
-Unbalanced and irregular nervous crises.
-Inattentive, distracted, jumping from one topic to another in conversation.
-He gets stressed if he has to answer yes or no to questions.
-Due to his inner instability, he delays decisions for a long time and misses many good opportunities.
-Does not seek advice from others in conflicts, tries to make decisions alone.
-His gestures are often hasty and sudden.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
The after-effects of physical, mental or spiritual shocks, whether long ago or more recently, are "spiritual comfort and pain relief".
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Some people have the audacity to boil the word down their throats.
-Can't take comfort.
-Unpleasant emotional experiences last too long.
-Bad news "freaks you out".
-An unpleasant experience has frightened and saddened him.
-Can't get to the bottom of an offensive debate.
-There is a painful point in your life that you don't like to be reminded of.
-Accident, not the same after surgery.
-He reacts slowly, quite dazed.
-Letting things get too close and then not being able to cope with them.
-Always returning to the same nightmarish dream.
-Body and soul sensitive, full of bruises.
-Possible accompanying physical symptoms: numbness, unsteady gait, hoarse voice, oedema.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Deep despair, he believes that he has reached the end of his endurance.
Reactions in the blocked state:
- You have manoeuvred yourself into an extreme situation that you can hardly bear.
-He sees his situation as hopeless, he doesn't know what to do next.
-You know that you cannot move forward on your own.
- You have to give up but you don't want to admit it yet.
-You can no longer see the light at the end of the tunnel.
-He feels he has reached the end of his tether.
-He can't understand why he has to endure so much, he thinks God has forgotten him.
-Deep despair, feeling lost in emptiness and total isolation.
-Total despair, an extreme state of mind, a dark night of the soul.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
He is over-enthusiastic for the right cause, while exhausting all his strength, irritable and fanatical.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-He is passionate about an idea and wants to inspire others.
-Injustice makes him angry.
-Determined, perfectionist, wants to do everything 150 percent.
-Impulsive, idealistic, internally driven, always ready for action.
-In his excessive zeal, he tells others what to do, forcing them to be happy.
-Driven by a desire to set others on a better path, it is overwhelming, it only serves to discourage them.
-He does not want to be ill in any way, because it would prevent him from working.
-Mission compulsion, knowing exactly what is good for the other person.
-Exaggerates, over-indulges, becomes fanatical.
-Is willing to take risks and sacrifice for the cause.
-With all his strength, he is determined to continue what he has undertaken, even if he is physically exhausted.
-Intense and nervous.
-He overindulges in everything, eating, sex, work, sports.
-Hard to find the right scale.
-He's so excited he can't relax, every muscle tenses.
-Too active children do not want to go to bed at night.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Dominant, ambitious, power-hungry, "little tyrant".
Reactions in the blocked state:
-When you want to get your way, you will not give up.
-He must always have the last word.
-He has problems with obedience.
-Have problems taking on leadership positions and managing others.
-Willing to take the lead, eager to play the role of saviour in an emergency.
-He feels compelled again and again to assess his strength and question the hierarchical system.
-Hard, uncompassionate, no remorse.
-Close-minded, accepting only your own opinion.
-The mind is important, not the heart.
-No respect for the opinions of others.
-Never doubting his superiority for a moment, he imposes his will on the others.
-Bullies, and does so by deliberately intimidating others.
-Does not tolerate contradiction.
-Boys brutally beat up their playmates.
-Old people are stubborn about sticking to their will.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Uncertain, impressionable, unstable, especially when entering a new phase of life.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-His objectives are clear, he usually knows exactly what he wants, but at the moment he finds it difficult to be true to himself.
-As a rule, she is very independent, but temporarily wavers in her decisions due to family considerations, social conventions, sentimental memories, and well-meaning admonitions.
-You have already made an important, life-changing decision, only the last step is left to implement it.
-He would like to be free from all constraints and the influence of others, but he hasn't quite managed it yet.
-Difficulty in withdrawing from the influence of an impressive, strong personality (role model, partner, teacher) when faced with decisions.
-You would like to finally become fully aware of an external change.
-There are major changes in your life; you get married, have a child, change jobs, get divorced, retire, move to another city.
-Crucial biological changes occur: adolescence, pregnancy, menopause, the final stage of a disease.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Internal seclusion, proud reserve, isolating superiority.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Feels isolated.
-Sometimes condescending or proud.
-Does not tolerate interference in his personal affairs.
-Does everything himself, does not burden others with his problems.
-Because of his aloof behaviour, others consider him conceited, pompous and arrogant.
-It is difficult to approach others without bias.
-Wants to get off the inner pedestal, but doesn't know how.
-Hard to join in conversations and discussions in company.
-Unknowingly makes it difficult for others to enter your private sphere.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Certain thoughts circulate incessantly in his head, he can't get rid of them, he engages in internal monologues and dialogues.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Unwanted thoughts or images push incessantly into your mind, you can't stop them.
-His thoughts are in one place,-a squirrel wheel.
-It's like the record is stuck and keeps repeating the same thing.
-You wonder again and again what you could or should have said.
-Can't get away from a worry or an event, keeps thinking about it.
-Thinking about the same problem over and over again, without finding a solution.
-You no longer think, you are dominated by your thoughts.
-He suffers from insomnia due to a mass of tormenting thoughts, especially in the early hours of the morning.
-He sometimes grinds his teeth, grinds his jaw, gets headaches and eyeaches because of mental stress.
-Can't control his/her overly active thinking, so he/she is extremely inattentive, e.g. doesn't hear when spoken to.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
He is indecisive in his goals, dissatisfied because he cannot find his purpose in life.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-He has no clear objectives, only vague ideas.
-They can't find their ideal task, so they feel dissatisfied, frustrated and bored.
-An ambitious person who wants to do something special, but doesn't know exactly what.
-Always chasing new plans.
-She tries lots of things, but nothing gives her real satisfaction.
-Despite countless opportunities, he has no interest in any profession, just hangs in the air, which discourages him.
-He says that things are never as clear for him as they are for others.
-He's wasting his strength, trying to grab too much.
-Deep down, he does not want to commit himself, so he always manoeuvres himself into situations that do not satisfy him.
-Not a suitable vocation or personal life.
-He's always rushing around, getting into something and then getting into something else, whether it's work, doing household chores or talking.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Indifference, apathy, resignation, inner surrender.
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Fatalistically, it settles for everything.
-He does not take himself seriously.
-Inwardly resigned, although the external circumstances are not so negative.
-He has lost all zest for life and inner motivation.
-Not striving to make positive changes in your life.
-He discovers his fate, such as an unhappy marriage, a chronic illness, an unsatisfying job.
-He sees his negative outlook as a family legacy.
-It is immeasurably sad.
-He feels bored, lonely, his soul empty.
-He does not complain, because he considers it normal.
-It's lethargic, it has no energy, it's a lonely vegetation.
-Speaks in a monotone, dull voice.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.
Inner resentment, despair, "victim of fate".
Reactions in the blocked state:
-Feels powerless.
-Feels marginalised, helplessly at the mercy of some situation -Bitter about life, resents his fate, feels unfairly treated.
-He feels he is not responsible for the situation, blaming others or the circumstances.
-He thinks he is trying in vain, but fate does not favour him.
-He believes that he has not been given a lot in life that he was entitled to.
-Claiming fate, but not willing to do anything about it.
-He takes it for granted that others will help him.
- He reacts defensively or defensively, often in a defiant manner.
-Tries to undermine the good mood and optimism of others.
-He's sulking inside, acting offended and becoming more and more withdrawn.
-From inner despair, he thinks poisonous and reproachful thoughts in his head.
-He is not willing to admit his own negativity, so nothing can change.
-Healing just uncomfortably admits that he is better.
We need the flower when we have one or two reactions that fit us exactly at the moment.